So yeah: The party.
Very little happened to me this time, other than being cuffed and tied up when I was supposed to go in a car and pick up someone who'd just arrived down by the road. I had a great time, but as I was so tired we (me and T) found it best to leave me more alone than we did the last time. That doesn't mean I wasn't active, though!
First I took part in tying up a young girl. Let's name her DF for now. A couple of the others went at her with a bull whip. She loved every second and I was glad I was part of the aftermath of that session. She needed support and encourangement, which I was happy to give her. I like being there for people when they need it.
Later, I wrestled with another girl on the floor, wached by a bunsh of men. I don't think I've named anyone M yet, so she'll get that name. I knew I could take her, as I'm almost twice as heavy as her. Then I held her down while testing different tools on her buttocks: Crop, paddles, whips etc. A lot of fun for us both. It was also a bit challenging as I've never done anything similar with her before and didn't know how far to push her.
Later that same evening, she got tied up and blindfolded. I was allowed to play more with her, and this time that included clamps. Again: A lot of fun. During the entire time, her bf was there waching us. I looked to him for guidance, and would have felt much more insecure without him.
From these incidents I learnt that I prefer a hands-on approach to BDSM rather than being further away. I like body contact, intimacy, the feeling of someone's skin under my hands. Which is probably the main reason why I prefer paddles and crops to longer whips. The former also gives me much more presicion when I hit (both strength and location), which is something I appreciate. But like I said, most of all I like touching.
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